- At what stage in your life did you realize, “I can’t do this anymore,” and walk out?
Quora asked this question…about my moment of insight
When and why did I walk out and why?
Four days after that weekend he charged dinner with his girlfriend to his credit card and I mustered the courage to look at the online statement. Always could. Never had. I didn’t snap, I shifted lanes, gears and direction. I squared my shoulders and walked out.
It may be the last trimester of my life, but I determined to change not him, but me. Through studying, writing and publishing a revealing, sassy memoir, LEAVING YOU…for me, I healed. Day by day, year by year.
That was four and half years ago. I’ll be seventy in four months and am having the time of my life. I have a yoga class this evening, a Meetup group happy hour tomorrow night, boating the bays near San Diego with a group of 12 the next day…and so it goes. I keep both a paper and online calendar to keep up.
It’s never too late to begin again.
My best wishes to all.
Alex Delon
I encourage you the visit https://universallyus.com an additional resource, has full forum capabilities…without the intrusion of the major social medias. We can interact, reach out for help or to lend a hand to women and men in abusive relationship worldwide. Hope to see you there!